Sep 21 2025 | By: Denice Woller
All of our children are brilliant. I know what you’re thinking—every parent says that about their kids—and you’re totally valid. But in this case, you’ll just have to believe me. Since they were tiny, it’s been clear how blessed they are with both analytical and creative brilliance. I’ve joked since birth that they stole some of my brain cells, but thankfully they’re putting them to good use.
Don't worry, I won't go through each child and break down here why you should believe me. This is all about our oldest, Rylee. For weeks I have thought about writing this post because since the beginning of summer I have just wanted to shout from the rooftops about how proud I am of her. That’s not usually my nature, and I’ve rarely shared much about my kids online—but here goes. (Catch me in person though, and I’ll gladly brag about all of them. 😊)
In June Rylee headed to the University of Nebraska in Lincoln. Out of over 400 applicants she was one of only 10 selected to participate in the Research Experience for Undergraduate (REU) program there. This program includes a variety of science majors, and as a biochemistry major at Bethany she wanted to do chemistry research. Amazingly, she was able to choose to work in the lab of Dr. David Berkowitz. I wouldn't do justice to attempt to explain how well-known he is around the world, but he also works for the National Science Foundation, and basically everything about this opportunity was a very big deal.
She spent roughly 50 hours a week throughout her summer doing research–and loved every minute of it. Each time I talked to her I thought, Wow—you are your father’s daughter. This experience solidified the fact that she doesn't want to go straight to med school now, she wants to go to grad school so she can do more research. She is also a psychology minor and is thinking about finding programs that bring all of that together, so we will see what God's plan is for that.
Rylee learned a lot over the summer, and she made a great impression on the team. At the program’s finale, students presented their research. She gave me the “dumbed-down” version when she got back—I maybe understood five words since chemistry is a foreign language—but Eric was thrilled.
The UNL group invited her to attend the America Chemical Society conference in Washington D.C. There with the group she was able to help present their research poster. What an honor to be asked to be included in this!
The timing was a little tricky, but she pulled it off! Right after finishing at UNL, Rylee headed on a solo trip to Finland. She barely had time to catch her breath before college started again. This year, she’s serving as Student Body President at Bethany Lutheran College—a role full of responsibility. Her first main duty of the semester was delivering the welcome speech to new students on orientation day. She’s an incredible speaker and did a wonderful job. But there wasn’t much time to celebrate—she went straight from the podium to the airport to catch her flight to D.C. She may have missed the first few days of classes, but the chance to play a role at such a prestigious convention and meet people at the National Science Foundation was worth every bit of the whirlwind.
Fast forward to September 18. At Bethany, she shared her summer research and REU experience with anyone interested, even offering advice on how to apply. She had a decent size crowd listening and some of us in the room may not have understood what she was talking about as well as the others, but she did tremendous at breaking down whatever Serine Rasmasce is, and why we should care. The brilliancy of our other children was reinstated during the Q & A time. Let's just say it is a good thing I don't have be the one to understand those questions.
Another fun aspect about this event was that it was the night before her 22nd birthday. In a sense we got to celebrate her–without actually embarrassing her by singing Happy Birthday. And, since it was a relatively random Thursday night, it was the perfect way to bring our family together. Even the silly things we did afterwards in Meyer Hall were memories I will treasure.
Rylee is now in her final year at Bethany, exploring grad schools across the country. God has an incredible plan for her, and our role as parents is to guide our children in His way—and then let them go. Until Lincoln (and Finland), I’d never really had to say goodbye to her, and with all three daughters on campus this year, I still get the joy of seeing them often. As a bonus, Rylee even enrolled in my photography class. What a fun surprise since I honestly thought of all of our kids she would be the last one to take a class from me. Having her in my classroom has been such a gift. We don’t know how long God will give us these everyday moments together, but this is certain: I'm so proud of her, she’s ready for the world, and she’s going to soar!
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